Discussing Incarnational Youth Work – Part 5. What dangers can it cause?

A couple of years ago I conducted an informal survey of fifty-seven full-time youth ministers who considered themselves to be ‘incarnational’ in their approach. 66.7% of them gave out their personal phone number to young people, and 52.6% gave their personal address. Of these 59.6% said they did not give any boundaries for when a young person could contact them. One respondent said he had an open-door policy: ‘For the most part, our door stays unlocked and they know they have the freedom to come in even if we are not home.’

This post is all about the practical dangers with those incarnational methods.

As the discussion so far has had a theological focus, it seemed unwise to give too much space to the practical implications in the middle of the previous posts. As with all poor theology, however, poor practice is sure to follow.

Outlining the practical issues

Unchecked openness

Going back to the survey I mentioned at the beginning, this open door and always on assumption in youth ministry clashes mightily with the need for healthy boundaries. Forgetting for a second that we’re neither God nor parents, what is the realistic risk-reward of making ourselves potential targets of dependency while burning out in the process?

This is exactly the kind of openness that is cautioned against by person-centered therapists, precisely because of the boundaries it rejects and dependency it creates. Modern counselors are  trained to look for these signs so they won’t be this unaccountably open. We might in fact be surprised that a lot of what is specifically suggested by incarnational youth ministry is flatly rejected in modern counseling theory.

I think this might just be this one of the key reasons that many youth workers burnout and most don’t last past one contract, and I’m not alone.

Burnout

Renfro in Perspectives on family ministry says the reason youth workers burnout is ‘because our ministry models are fundamentally flawed’ (2009:10). Bertrand and Hearlson in Relationships, personalism, and Andrew Root, agree saying incarnational youth ministry ‘sets up problems of intimacy between unequal partners and exacerbates the problem of youth worker burnout’ (2013:50).

Todd Billings (who we’ve talked about in previous parts) draws a straight line more specifically between poor incarnational theology and practical complications. He says

Yet because they take the Incarnation as their “model” of ministry, these evangelicals often assume that they—rather than the Holy Spirit—make Christ present in the world… “you and I may be the only Jesus that others will ever meet” …The burden of incarnation—and revelation—is on the shoulders of the individuals. Such a theology often leads to burnout (2012:60).

Pete Ward in Youthwork and the mission of God does address this somewhat, saying that the worker needs to learn to help young people become independent of them (1997:66). Darren Pollock, however, was unconvinced and in The church’s mission to youth, he criticised Ward directly saying his leader-centric model was still likely ‘to foster burnout among leaders’ (2014:299).

Dr. Andrew Root goes further and says we are to us to indwell or inhabit the pain of another so completely that it becomes our own (Revisiting relational youth ministry, 2007:129-130). He calls this ‘place-sharing’. I wrote to Dr. Root about this and he responded saying ‘you can only be a place-sharer to about 5 young people.’ Isn’t empathizing at this complete level this with even just one person dangerous? This is especially true when that one person is at completely a different stage of life and when the openness (according to Root) should go both ways. This is a recipe for burnout for sure, but also quite close to a text book definition of abuse: When two unequal parties share their own respective weights of experience and pain and needs, what will happen to the ‘weaker’ party?

Blurred lines at home

Herein lies the problem with an unchecked incarnational model of youth ministry. It has an inherent mugginess of boundaries that creates a lot of potentially unsafe situations.

You don’t want to argue with a family member at two in the morning, because you’ll both say things you don’t mean. Always being on is something parents do for a set number of years and they make a lot of mistakes, as we all know.

That close family relationship, all-warts exposed, cannot extend to twenty-some young people twenty-four hours a day. It’s a recipe for the happening of terrible things — and it also sets a precedent for those young people. We might be inadvertently teaching them to fall into unsafe behaviours and practices with other people in their lives who perhaps they shouldn’t trust.

Safeguarding concerns

While always being open to young people is a drain on health and family, robbing the worker of their effectiveness, it also creates safeguarding vulnerabilities. Being alone on the phone to a young person at all hours, having them come into the house alone, regularly meeting in quiet spaces, and prolonged private conversations can create unhealthy levels of dependency and exclusivity. Things are easily misconstrued in concealed spaces, especially with hurting and vulnerable young people.

Personal boundaries and healthy safeguarding practices are necessities for today’s youth worker to be in their post for years to come. Longevity demands healthy practice and accountability – things that are often neglected by incarnational models of youth ministry.

An ‘always on’ youth worker is a ‘sometimes off’ husband, or a ‘partially available mum’, or ‘too busy doing ministry’ dad. We really need another way.

So, Tim, you don’t like incarnational youth ministry?

Why, no. No, I don’t. I don’t think it’s theologically grounded, logically consistent, biblically sound, or practically helpful. I think as a theory it has a lot to answer for, and that we as the next generation of youth leaders need to move away from it.

I know ‘incarnational’ is unwritten into our methods. For some of us it feels part of our blood, it’s become a key part of our ministry identity. I don’t want – in any way – for this to pull the rug out from someone’s feet.

There’s goodness to retain, therefore. We might want to consider renaming our approach as relational-contextual­ rather than incarnational, rediscover the importance of proclamation – even without having foundational relationships – and create a wider base of ministry that happens outside of our purview and inside our boundaries.

I think burnout is a main reason youth ministers don’t last long, and that one of the reasons for this is our oppressive links to incarnational theory. Let’s be more sensible, more theologically grounded, and more spiritually helpful. We can still be incredibly compassionate without giving ourselves up to the worlds of young people.

Let’s do better folks.

 

Discussing Incarnational Youth Work – Part 4. What does the original doctrine have to say?

Here we are at day 4 of Incarnational youth ministry week on YouthWorkHacks. Part 1 checked out the basics, Part 2 dug into the terms, Part 3 looked at the Bible, and today – Part 4 – we’re looking at the wider doctrine. Tomorrow we’ll conclude with some more practical things to think about.

Onto the doctrine then!

The Incarnation is primarily a unique work of God. It is not one that we are actually directly instructed to imitate because realistically to do so would be idolatry. We can work with it and even learn from it, but we can’t dress up in it like a onesie or a superhero costume.

A historic doctrine

Although history provides many theological interpretations of the Incarnation, we’re going to spend time now on what is widely accepted as the orthodox position. This is the unwritten view of the Incarnation that has been supported by the creeds most widely used across mainstream denominations.

Back in 325 AD and 451 AD, respective councils at Nicaea and Chalcedon met to debate what the Incarnation really was. They poured over the Bible together, debated for hours, and then arrived at two of our most important creeds. These two creeds have been used to establish orthodoxy ever since.

Digging into these creeds we find six essential aspects of the Incarnation. If you remove one of them, the doctrine collapses, and if you significantly over or underemphasise one of them, then the doctrine gets a serious dent. It would be enough to fail an MOT.

Let’s look at the six of the pieces in turn, then check out a little diagram that I made (and am excessively proud of).

Pre-existence

The Son existed in eternity as the second person of the Trinity before he was ‘enfleshed’ in Jesus. He ‘was’ before he was Jesus.

For Jesus to be Incarnate, it was important that He existed first. In fact, under a wider religious view of incarnation, it’s actually impossible to become incarnate at all without pre-existing in some form first.

In Heb. 1, where the divinity of Jesus is emphasised, there is a solid and unmissable affirmation of the pre-existence of Jesus. He existed in eternity before He was incarnate in the flesh.

Hypostatic union

Now there is a fabulous term to throw out at parties!

A central discussion at both the council of Nicaea and Chalcedon was on how Jesus could be presented as one hypostasis (substance) between God and human. How could He be both?

It’s a bit complicated in the details, but what the creeds are saying here is that Jesus was both divine and human – at the very same time. It’s like being both fully wet and fully dry – at the same time. Yea, I can’t do it either! That’s kinda the point though.

In the person of Jesus, the fullness of God (Col. 1:15) dwelt in human form (Jn. 1:1-18). Two complete, distinct persons, fully united in one ‘hypostasis’. Neat eh?

Humility

Athanasius of Alexandria (an absolutely early legend) said, ‘the incorporeal and incorruptible and immaterial Word of God entered our world’ (318, 1993:33).

Commentator Ben Witherington says ‘Jesus’ greatest temptation was to push the “God button,” to draw on his divine nature in a fashion that obliterated his true humanity’ (Witherington, 2016:125). That’s an awesome quote! Phil. 2:5-11 teaches that Jesus, the pre-existent God, humbled himself to both human reality and ultimately death.

Phew! Humility is not just how low can you make yourself, it’s from how high did you start off. This is why it’s more impressive when a tall guy limbos! We cannot full grasp the level of Jesus’ humility, because we began nowhere near his great height.

Atonement

Ok. Big one now! Jesus came to save us, and He needed to be both human and God for this to work:

As human, Jesus was the required sacrifice for the human condition of sin (2 Cor. 5:21). He was a human solution to a human problem. If He was just human – even a perfect one – then He would only be able to pay the price of one other human. This is where His epic God-ness comes in.

As God, Jesus was able to become both perfect sacrificial lamb (Lev. 16) and mediating High Priest (Heb. 4:14-18). This made His sacrifice eternal! It worked for all of potential humanity in the one event of the cross (Heb. 10:1-18; 2 Pt. 3:18).

‘For Athanasius… Jesus’ atoning death was the central purpose of the incarnation; the immortal Son of God needed to become man to die’ (Athanasius, 318, 1993:35, cf.:26; also check out Steve Jeffery, Ovey and Sach in Pierced for our Transgressions, 2007:172).

Eschatology

Here’s another fun party word. So, Adam was the assumed head of humanity being the first born of creation. Jesus, however, has become the new head of humanity being the first born of the new creation. Where Adam sucked, Jesus got it right (Rom. 5).

The Incarnation makes Jesus the undisputed King of the world, baby.

Jeffery says ‘The Son became incarnate in order to bring completion to creation. For God intended his creation to be ruled by a perfect human being, and without such a ruler creation is incomplete, lacking, defective’ (Pierced for our Transgressions, 133).

Revelation

Last but not least, Revelation.

Revelation is the translation of God to His creation, both primarily as the ultimate or ‘true’ human to humanity, and secondarily as a 1st Century Aramaic-Jew living in that particular culture. He is the true ‘Word of God’ (Jn. 1) that has been ultimately spoken in these ‘last days’ (Heb.1).

This piece is a really important part of the puzzle, but it is not the whole picture of the Incarnation. Let’s summarise these six points in a diagram before we move back to the point, which is incarnational youth ministry.

So, what’s your point, Tim?

My point is that the incarnational theory of youth ministry misses five out of six aspects of the doctrine of the Incarnation, and seriously dilutes the sixth. That’s like 85% of the doctrine bypassed! Gaaarraggghhhhh!!  *cough*… sorry. It’s not that they always miss these in other areas of discussion, but they don’t come up when talking about the Incarnation.

Most of these aspects can only work if you happen to be God. They are unique, divine, and saving actions that cannot be emulated by humans. We don’t save right?

The incarnation primarily is a unique aspect of God. Saying that we incarnate into culture like Jesus incarnated into culture is to take one very small part of the Incarnation, ignore all the others, and then make it the whole – and then its twist what remains slightly to be about us rather than Him.

This is why it’s a big deal. It’s taking a tyre off a car then trying to fit it to a bicycle and that calling that a ‘car’.

I’m happy to say something like, ‘when God was Incarnate in Jesus, He was contextualised to a specific Aramaic-Jewish culture, so we too must consider how to contextualise into other cultures.’ That’s fine. I’m also happy to say something like ‘when God was Incarnate in Jesus, He became a relatable human being, so we to must focus on building relationships with those we serve.’ But I’m not happy to call what we do ‘Incarnational’.

When using any foundational doctrine as a basis for praxis, we should always ask whether the praxis flows healthily from the original doctrine without confusing or diminishing it. Incarnational theory uses one small part, morphs it into a thing we primarily do, then completely bypasses the other aspects of the doctrine.

My big big problem here – other than the fact that we keep thinking of the Incarnation through the lens of incarnational theory and thus diluting who Jesus is and what He did is… no, wait. That is the big problem. Let’s not do that any more.

 

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Discussing Incarnational Youth Work – Part 3. Doesn’t the Bible back it up?

Welcome back to Incarnational youth ministry week. We looked at the definition in Part 1, and we unpacked the importance of the meaning of the word in Part 2. Tomorrow we’ll dig deeper doctrinally, and on Friday we’ll look some of the practical dangers with some incarnational methods.

Today we’re looking at the Bible! Woohoo!

Quick caveat. I’ve had a message from someone who was a little upset with my tone on the previous Part. I’m really sorry! I guess I came across like a bit of a know-it-all. Totally not my intention. Those of you who know me know that I hate upsetting anyone. I don’t mean to come across poor, but I do want to be clear that I think this is a really really deep problem. I really think that this needs to be challenged because it does represent a Gospel issue that cuts to the center of who Jesus is and why He came. My caveat is please trust my heart is motivated by desire to help youth ministry and honour Jesus. We’re in this together. Back to Part 3.

What we can tell from method

Incarnational theory sounds theological, not just because of the word, but because of the texts that – at least at first glance – seem to back it up.

As with any theological issue, the problem stems from how we interact with the Bible. As is endemic in youth ministry culture, I think that the problems arise from a general lack of confidence in, and competence with handling the Bible itself.

How someone uses the Bible itself should be a key indicator of the surety of their theological conclusions. What this part is intending to do is gently poke at the exegetical methods used in incarnational theory to answer the question does the Bible really support it?

Throughout the youth ministry volumes that advocate for incarnational youth ministry, three passages of Scripture are used almost exclusively: Jn. 1; Phil. 2; and 1 Cor. 9. These are all used sparingly and, honestly, in some cases just very poorly.

Before we move on to look at these verses specifically, we should stop for a moment and consider which passages are often (if not usually) used in theological discussions about the Incarnation. Sorry about list, but Ex. 25:8; Is. 7:14; Mic. 5:2; Mal. 3:1-5; Matt. 1:18-23; 3:17; 17:5; Mk. 1:24; 10:17-18; Jn. 5:18; 6:29; Col. 1:15-20; Heb. 1:1-14; 20:28; Rev. 19:11-13 all are seen by systematic theologians to be significant passages in the doctrine of the Incarnation.

Now I know that systematic theology and youth work books are different genres, but when a theorist of any stripe appeals to a well known and particular doctrine for their practice, then technically they are doing systematic theology. This is especially true if they take the same name and describe the practice as the same thing.

There are many staple Bible verses (including all those above) that incarnational youth ministry theorists don’t use at all. I don’t expect youth work books to use all relevant passages, but I think the selective way they have picked their verses is a little telling. It’s almost like they had a point ready to go, and then looked for verses that fit it – rather than the other way around.

That said, I’m not sure the verses they’ve picked actually do always support the points they make. I think their idea is too easily read into the verses, rather than derived from them. Let’s have a look.

John 1

Almost every Incarnational writer that I read (in both youth ministry and contemporary missiology) used The Message version of verse 14, which says Jesus ‘moved into the neighbourhood’ (for instance Dean Borgman, Agenda for Youth Ministry, 1998:10, and Alan Hirsch, The Forgotten Ways, 2006:131).

I’m actually a fan of the Message and this is absolutely a helpful interpretation at one level, but it’s also quite misleading and limiting at another. It is a partial interpretation of the whole, focusing on just one piece of the doctrine of the Incarnation. There are several other important aspects of the Incarnation spoken about in Jn. 1, but they get missed by this translation, and as such are all but left ignored by most of the writers I looked at.

A much better example would be Dr. Sally Nash, for instance, who uses the Message and also does a good job with the verse (as you’d expect) by pointing to the LXX to discuss the etymology of the word ‘incarnation’ as sarx egeneto (becoming flesh) (What Theology for Youth Work, 2007:13). This was a good read, but doesn’t unfortunately go beyond this revelation idea. Mostly, I assume, because of the limitations of only having 9000 words to work with.

Liz Edrington (a Young Life worker) also does a better job, spending 150 words opening both the divine and human side of the incarnation from vv.1-18. This was the most I’ve seen written about the verse in a youth ministry book, and a rare breath air of theological engagement (in Gospel Driven Youth Ministry, 2016:69-75). Her good work on the verse, however, was then not then used to formulate her conclusions. She looked closely at the text, then left it behind. Her summary was God empathised with humanity, which she called ‘presence sharing’. She then said that we are called to do likewise. This is a case of the conclusion not flowing out from the exegesis – or putting the cart before the horse.

I found very little actual textual engagement in any incarnational theorist beyond mere allusions to a purely cultural mission that we could then emulate.

You could summarise almost every discussion of this passage in incarnational books with the following line: Jesus became a relatable human, immersing himself specifically in 1st century Jewish-Aramaic culture… go therefore and do likewise to various cultures today. Todd Billings, after attending an incarnational training day, put it this way,

‘If moving into the neighbourhood and immersing oneself among the people is God’s strategy for ministry, I was told, then certainly it must be ours… But there was apparently no need to mention Jesus any further’ (Billings, Incarnational Ministry in Christianity Today, 2012:60).

In contrast, Jim Packer, when looking at the same passage on the same topic, works through each section sequentially, relating it to the broader context of John and the wider doctrine of the Incarnation. He showed actual exegesis. This resulted in a clear textual understanding of the incarnation before any applications were made (Knowing God, 1973:62).

It should be very difficult to come away from Jn. 1 without a clear sense of the uniqueness of Jesus as the Word, both eternal and creator (M. Driscoll and G. Breshears, Doctrine, 2010:212-214). Incarnational youth ministry advocates unfortunately pass over both of these aspects in their rush to make it about what we should do instead.

Making what Jesus does in Jn. 1 primarily about what we should do today is just a little bit weird. We do feature in Jn. 1, but as His creation (v.2), needing His light (vv.4, 9), and made to be His children through faith (vv.11-13). Jesus is our way of knowing God (vv.1, 7, 14, 18) and our place in this story is to believe in God by accepting Jesus. It’s not that we can’t learn from the life of Jesus, of course we can, but to focus on that in Jn. 1 and miss all the pieces about who Jesus is as our faith-given way to salvation is a tragic misreading of the passage.

Philippians 2

Packer again gives a good example of what handling the Bible carefully should look like Knowing God, 64-65). He draws Phil. 2 out exegetically to demonstrate the Christology of Jesus, as divine and born to die, drawing a straight line from the complete uniqueness of Jesus to the atonement won by His death.

This was a ‘loving act of humility’ (S. Jeffery, M. Ovey, & A. Sach, Pierced for our transgressions, 2007:133), but one which is made to show Jesus’ headship over creation by demonstrating perfect obedience to the Father (135).

Incarnational youth ministry advocates (for instance Andy Borgman, When kumbaya is not enough, 1997:xv), however, don’t spend any time on the salvation aspects of this passage.

That’s a significant oversight considering it’s the central part of the passage. Instead Borgman (and many others) used it solely as a blueprint for our own humility and work today. Using Phil. 2 without mentioning salvation won through Jesus, however, is missing the very core of its message.

Quoting this verse Pete Ward says, ‘in doing these things we will actually be doing exactly the same thing Jesus did when he became a human being’ (Liquid Church, 1992:31). No, we won’t. Not really anyway, there are aspects that we will be doing a little bit like Him would be fair, but the central place of salvation (and the central point of this passage) belongs to Jesus alone.

Billings reminds us that our place in Phil. 2:1-11 ‘means displaying a life of service, obedience, and harmony in Christ—not imitating the act of incarnation’ (2012:61).

1 Corinthians 9

This is another verse that is thrown into the mix without any real unpacking or discussion on the central ideas it contains (again, Borgman, 1997:30-31). Sometimes, things were even added to the verse to make it say it’s about us today. Steve Gerali, for instance, uses the verse by adding a likewise clause, drawing a straight line from what Paul did to what we should do, without any explanation of why. He says

‘In 1 Corinthians 9:19-22, Paul addressed what it means to become like. Paul became a student of the community and culture of those that he was trying to reach. “I have become all things to all men so that by all possible means I might save some” (v.22). Our goal is to become all things to all adolescents so that we might reach them.’ (Gerali in Starting right: thinking theologically about youth ministry, 2001:286).

In the very next chapter Paul unpacks exactly what this looks like, and it is largely about being full of grace and patience, and communicating clearly. It is not about indiscriminately immersing himself in the culture or becoming just like a teenagers to reach teenagers.

At one level that’s really unhelpful and could even be dangerous – what, for instance, would you do if you would needed to sin to enter into a particualr culture? What if you needed to flaunt safeguarding policy? At another level, however, it’s just creepy – teenagers aren’t looking for adults who dress like kids and can quote box sets, they’re looking for deep authenticity and genuine realism.

This verse is often used as scriptural basis for the accommodation principle – meaning to ‘oblige or adjust oneself to another’ (K. Creasy-Dean in Starting right: thinking theologically about youth ministry 2001:74). Richter says

‘Youth ministry must be guided by this accommodation principle. We must not expect teenagers to bear the primary burden of accommodating themselves to our agenda, schedule, and program design.’ (Richter in Starting right: thinking theologically about youth ministry, 2001:75).

The problem here is twofold. First, as A. Thiselton explains, accommodation is poor translation of the verse (1 Corinthians, 2000:706), and moves too far from the context of engaging people from a specific religious and socio-political spectrum (703-707). Second, it seems that accommodating oneself to God’s agenda is precisely what humans are called to do when accepting salvation.

There’s goodness in here, but I’m not convinced it flows out form the verse, and making it do so adds obligatory weight to our practice making muddy our boundaries. More on this in Part 5.

What does the Bible say?

To decide if something is theologically sound, we start by asking if it’s biblically grounded. To find out if something is biblically grounded we need to do more than bounce off heavily interpreted proof-texts. We need to grapple with their original meanings.

Through this exploration of the key verses used by incarnational youth ministers, we see that the Bible-reading method is to proof-text and then apply, with very little discussion or explanation of the texts in their contexts first. Exegesis is not just found wanting, it’s almost entirely absent.

I’m not saying you need to be a Bible scholar to write practically or even theologically, but all of us should start by giving more respect to the passages themselves if we’re going to use them. If, however, we are going to appropriate significant theological terms (like Incarnation), then we set ourselves up to be biblically robust.

In no case can we detect serious theological misinterpretations within the usage of these passages,  there are, however, some very serious omissions, especially in regard to who Jesus is and how He saves.

Tomorrow we will draw this out in more detail.

 

 

Discussing Incarnational Youth Work – Part 2. It’s all semantics, right?

Thanks for tuning in. It’s incarnational youth ministry week here on YouthWorkHacks, and today I’m posting Part 2 of a 5 (yes 5!) part series discussing and critiquing the incarnational theory of youth work.

If you’re not sure what I mean by incarnational youth ministry and you missed Part 1, click here and check out the introduction.

Today we’re talking about semantics, or the meanings behind a word. Is ‘incarnational’ truly based on the Incarnation?

I know this is likely to step on some toes – sorry 🙁 – I hate challenging people and really struggle with conflict. This, however, is one of those areas where I feel something central about the Gospel is at stake. We’re all people who love Jesus, so let’s have a generous think and take stock of the words we’ve chosen to use.

When using any foundational doctrine as a basis for praxis, we should always ask whether that praxis flows healthily from the original doctrine without confusing or diminishing it.

Is incarnational youth ministry true to the original and representative of the whole? I don’t think it is.

I’m not talking about purely contextual or relational youth ministry. These are both things that I love when done well and are the nuggets of gold contained within the incarnational method. We don’t want to throw the baby out with the bathwater after all! A lot of the basic incarnational practices, therefore, don’t really bother me.

With healthy boundaries (see part 5 on Friday), the practices are not my problem. Let’s see if I can say what is.

We all know what ‘the Incarnation’ is, right?

At a recent training event, I asked a room of twenty-five youth workers to explain what the Incarnation was and what it achieved. Some of these youth workers were experienced, well-read practitioners, others were green and just getting started.

Every single one of the responses, however, focused strongly on the same thing: The Incarnation was God revealing himself to humanity. I pushed them a little and asked why Jesus had to come as a human and not, for instance, a crocodile or a toaster. Again, every response was about relatability, empathy, and revelation. ‘Jesus came as a human so we could totally get Him and relate to Him, yknow?’

Did you see the problem?

Revelation is just one of maybe six significant theological tenants of the Incarnation, and relatability is just a small part of Revelation. Pre-existence is part of the incarnation – God himself taking on human form. Substitutionary atonement is part of the incarnation – a human sacrifice for a human problem. Hypostatic union is part of the incarnation – Jesus as still fully part of the Godhead, thus a divine sacrifice for an eternal problem. Eschatology is part of the incarnation – God restoring His headship through Jesus, the new Adam. The Incarnation is an enormously important doctrine about who God is and how He saves us. For more on this, you’ll want to check out Part 4 on Thursday.

I have actually asked this same question in rooms of youth workers over the past twelve months in twenty four different locations in the UK, and the responses, without exception, were always in the same ballpark.

Revelation is incredibly important, and I don’t want to downplay its importance in the Incarnation, but it is far from the whole – and incarnational youth ministry only really appeals to one aspect of revelvation (contextual relatability). At what point can we really say, therefore, that we are being incarnational?

I think this has now gone too far. Reading the Incarnation through the tinted and very specific lens of incarnational theory has resulted in a generation of youth leaders who can’t articulate the main moving parts of the doctrine.

Am I getting too stuck on the word?

You might think I’m being petty, after all this is just semantics, right? I’m just fussing over the word.

At the purely metaphorical or practical level I don’t really mind too much. I think choosing to attribute God-specific stuff to us is usually a bad idea, so unwise perhaps, but not the end of the world. There is certainly overlap with the contextual-relational part of the Incarnation that we can work with. If there is good teaching on the Incarnation then borrowing from it in context wouldn’t be too big a deal.

The problem, however, is that this doesn’t seem to be the case. ‘Incarnational theory’ hasn’t been nuanced or qualified against the original doctrine anywhere near enough to warrant appropriation of the word.

Instead, the Incarnation has been reduced a purely revelation action that we can copy, rather than the one time, unique, and saving action of the divine. When meanings change this much semantics become very important. We don’t talk about Trinitarian or Atoning or Salvific youth ministry – why then would we let the Incarnation be fair game?

A tyre is not a car, an arm is not a body, and Posh is not The Spice Girls.

I don’t think this is intentional, but the fact remains that youth workers often read more about incarnational theory than the actual Incarnation itself as a doctrine. Guess which one is left wanting?

I’ve found that youth ministry books that use the term are very unlikely to have a full doctrinal discussion of the Incarnation, yet they still appropriate the doctrine, hijack the concept, and drain the original meaning of its power.

Without good teaching on the Incarnation prior to reading, what’s a youth worker to do?

What happens when you mess with meaning like this?

When a word has been mistakenly overused for so long without nuance, context, or clarification then that word begins to change, and without some way of retaining the original you lose its initial meaning.

When you reduce an idea down to just one of its parts without holding the sidelined pieces in tension, you end up losing the whole. In the same way a ‘car’ is not a ‘tyre’, we may have actually diluted the Incarnation, watering down our understanding of its true substance.

This is why a room of youth workers couldn’t tell me specifically how the Incarnation was part of God’s saving action, and – when pushed – they couldn’t tell me why God had to be both divine and human for salvation to work.

This is important. You wouldn’t call something ‘Trinitarian youth ministry’ just because you happened to have three projects, or ‘Creational youth ministry’ because you used lego, or ‘Eschatological youth ministry’ because you always finished late. Taking a small piece of the whole, then hijacking it is just detrimental to the original.

This is nothing less than a significant watering down of an essential piece of Christology. Honestly, I think we’re messing with how we understand the very person of Jesus Christ. Jesus didn’t come, primarily, to empathise with humanity, He came to save it! He can do that, we can’t.

We don’t become incarnate exactly because He already did.

A room of youth workers should be able to tell me why the Incarnation was necessary for the salvation of humans – they should be teaching this in detail to their young people every week. Five decades of incarnational theory being written in our youth ministry books with little contextual discussion of the whole has robbed the Incarnation of its true power.

The really big problem

When using any foundational doctrine as a basis for praxis, we should always ask whether that praxis flows healthily from the original doctrine without confusing or diminishing it. Incarnational theory uses one very small part, morphs it into a thing that we primarily do, rather than God, and then it completely bypasses the other aspects of the doctrine.

My big big problem here is that if we read more youth work books than theology books (or dare I say the Bible) we end up thinking of the Incarnation through the lens of incarnational theory and thus diluting who Jesus is and what He did.

It’s no less than messing with Jesus folks. Is there not a better way that we can find to talk about the good parts of the theory in a way that doesn’t do this? Simplification is one thing – it helps us communicate what we do – but using a doctrine of the person and character of God to talk about what we do it is very shaky indeed. They’ll be more on this specifically when we look at the original doctrine in Part 4.

The problem is we’ve made it too much about revelation, forgetting the bigger picture, and too much about us, forgetting the unique work of God.

I think we need to take the Incarnation back from incarnataional youth ministry, rethink the name and redeem the original doctrine.

 

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Discussing Incarnational Youth Work – Part 1. What is it and what’s my problem?

Incarnational ministry has become something of the prosthetic spine of youth work. It’s spinal, in that it runs right through the structural centre of many of our approaches, but it’s prosthetic because it’s a poor substitute for the real thing.

This week I’ll be posting five posts – a whole series – discussing some of my struggles with incarnational youth ministry. This is “Incarnational Youth Ministry Week” here at YouthWorkHacks.com and I really hope you find it useful.

Each post will walk you through some of my theological and practical struggles with the incarnational theory in youth ministry. We don’t want to throw out the baby with the bathwater as there is a lot within incarnational theory to celebrate. My hope, however, is that we can find a method that retains the good and useful, but disregards the dangerous and misguided.

This won’t be a full critique; I have a journal article going through peer-review at the moment that will offer more in the way of that. With that in mind, these five posts should be read as a first step, rather than a last word.

What is incarnational youth ministry?

I first heard the phrase ‘incarnational’ in a dimly lit room, while sat across from a very patient youth ministry professor. He was on an enormous cushy couch while surrounded by walls of books making this the closest thing that I’ve ever had to true Freudian therapy!

I had gone to see this professor because I had just realised that graduating from College as a trained Church Pastor at age twenty-one was going to leave me unemployed. Instead I would have to ‘settle’ for youth work for a while. This kindly prof was graciously helping me understand just how tragically under-prepared I was for this change in direction. I hadn’t read anything on youth ministry by this point and I was looking down the barrel of impending job interviews. He asked me the question: what do you know of the incarnational method? My answer was simple: nothing.

This may have been the first instance, but it was far from the last. As I quickly learned, Incarnational youth ministry runs through almost every western method of and approach to youth ministry since the late 1940s. I didn’t know that’s what it was called but I had lived through it myself as a teenager and as a volunteer.

The definition of incarnational youth ministry begins with the idea that we’re doing mission and ministry as Jesus did mission and ministry (W. Black, An Introduction to Youth Ministry, 1991:209).

Who could object to that, right? But let’s keep going. The thought behind incarnational ministry is that as God became human and immersed himself into a specific culture (M. Moynagh, Emergingchurch.intro 2004:43), so the worker today must adapt themselves and immerse themselves – both contextually and relationally – in order to bring the gospel to young people in their own cultures (Steve Gerali in Starting right: thinking theologically about youth ministry, 2001:290). They must become something other than what they are to become like those they minister to – in fact they must be ‘incarnate’ and become just like them. Young Life in the 1940s called this ‘earning the right to be heard’. In Burn’s words, ‘as the ministry of Jesus was incarnate in the Gospels, so our life must be incarnate in youth ministry’ (in Josh McDowell’s youth ministry handbook: making the connection, 2000:35).

Do we both mean the same thing when we say ‘incarnational’?

Incarnational youth ministry might be your ‘thing’, in which case this post is for you. It also might just be what you call your thing but isn’t really what your thing is. Let me explain.

Sometimes, when youth workers say they’re doing ‘incarnational’ youth ministry they are actually just doing basic relational driven ministry (focused more on individuals), or contextualised ministry (focused more on the specific cultural context of young people), or a mixture of both. Sometimes (especially in Britain), it just means they’re doing some form of detached ministry. You might want to rethink the ‘incarnational’ label for reasons that we’ll get to but I’m fine with those options – carry on!

Incarnational ministry as a theory definitely includes those things – its two main moving parts are contextualisation and relationship building – but it technically goes much much further.

Incarnational youth ministry as a model and as an assumed ethos has gone largely unchallenged in youth ministry culture. It appears in almost every youth ministry book explicitly or implicitly as the only way to do it.

The problem is that it sounds theological, ‘incarnation’ right? John 1:14; 1 Cor. 9:19-22; and Phil. 2:1-11 all seem like legit scriptural support beams. More than this, its proponents have many stories of how their openness to young people’s lives, and their cultural engagement in young people’s world has created immense opportunities for the Gospel.

To challenge this has been somewhat taboo. It’s the third rail of youth ministry. Step on it and you die.

Deep breath. Foot raised…

I don’t think incarnational youth ministry is theologically grounded. At all. I think it represents a serious misreading of those verses, selective reading of others, completely bypassing classical Incarnation texts, and a misappropriation – dare I say hijacking – of a significant truth about God’s person. These issues will be the themes of discussion coming in Parts 3 – 4.

I don’t think it’s healthy either. Not for young people, for youth culture, for church integration, and – perhaps most tellingly – not for the longevity of our youth workers. You’ll read more about this on Friday in Part 5.

So, I’m breaking the seal, opening the packet, popping the pringles, and stepping on the rail.

 

This week I will post four more parts to outline my issues a bit more fully. They will be:

 

5 Myths about Expository Teaching in Youth Groups

I think modern youth ministry has more history in topical teaching than expositional, and I think youth ministry training and resources tend to focus more on it too. That doesn’t make topical teaching better though, just more usual – and so we feel more confident in teaching topics and more competent in putting topical teaching together.

Topical teaching is not bad, and it does have a place in our projects. I also believe, however, that expositional teaching – when done well with young people – covers all the topics that we’d want to cover anyway. I believe it does this with more healthy and specific applications, while also imparting skills in how to handle the Bible.

Both topical and expositional teaching have their place in a youth group, but I’ll always lean towards expositional. It might be slightly outside of the historic wheelhouse of modern youth ministry, but I think it’s well worth the time and effort.

Here are five myths about expository teaching that could do with being exposed (see what I did there?):

1. It will go over their heads

The Bible is not too hard for teenagers to understand. Like anything, it just needs teaching clearly. Usually, Bible teaching that comes across as too difficult has much more to say about the teacher than those taught. It’s a living and active book. God speaks directly through it – our job is to teach it well.

Taught with confidence and competence, the Bible is the most understandable message to humanity there is.

2. It won’t be relevant

The Bible speaks to every situation of life, and – again, taught well – will always shine a light on modern situations. You might not find a guide to Instagram in the book of Mark, but everything that drives the needs and passions surrounding social media is there in spades. The Bible goes beyond the superficial and gets to ‘the thing behind the thing’ very quickly.

Taught with confidence and competence, the Bible is the most relevant message to humanity there is.

3. It takes too long

The Bible has been broken up into sections for a reason. Pick passages and books that fit the timings and styles of your projects. The golden rule is: It’s better to spend time on a little, than glance over a lot. One of my groups once spent two years looking at Philippians chapter 1. We didn’t rush it, didn’t over plan it, and – with the addition of Q&A – It spoke to almost everything that they cared about.

Taught with confidence and competence, the Bible is the most practically adaptable message to humanity there is.

4. It won’t be tailored to my group

It’s an odd idea that we can understand any group so deeply that we can come up with five or six specific topics that cover all their needs and challenges. Topical teaching inevitably pigeon holes and simplifies issues to reach a broad group. The Bible, however, speaks directly to our daily lives because the Holy Spirit works through it as we teach. It’s living and active and it comes with the immediate understanding of the voice of God. As such, it will always speak more clearly to a group than reduced topical teaching.

Taught with confidence and competence, the Bible is the most applicable message to humanity there is.

5. It will be boring

The Bible is not boring. Not one bit and not for one second! We are charged to interact with it deeply and discover the fullness of life within it’s pages. If the teacher is phoning it in, then it will be boring. When Jesus taught the whole available Bible in Luke 24:27, the disciples said that their hearts burned within them (v.32). There’s absolutely nothing wrong with the material, only our confidence in it and competence with it.

Taught with confidence and competence, the Bible is the most alive and inspiring message to humanity there is.

Confidence and Competence

I keep mentioning confidence in and competence with the Bible. This is a hard message and a stark challenge because many youth workers have told me that this is exactly where they struggle most. This is why I wrote Rebooted – to give youth workers more confidence in and competence with the Bible. You could read 15 pages of Rebooted strategically and get a narrative overview of the whole Bible. It’s there to help in exactly this area.

For now, just keep reading the Bible! The more you read the more you hear, the more you hear the more you know, and the more you know the more you live, and the more you live the better you teach!

 

Faith formation in a Post-Christendom context. Part Two: Some Ways Forward

This week, Jonny Price, Youth and Children’s Ministry Leader in York, returns to give us some insight faith formation with a post-Christendom culture. This is the second in a two part series, so check out part 1 here.

Recently I wrote about some assumptions that we make around faith formation. Here I want to explore some positive ways forward for us in a post-Christendom world, which may be able to help us inspire, encourage, and grow our young people in a life of faith.

1. Start with Jesus

Much of our evangelism starts with trying to convince people that God exists. What if, instead, we start with exploring who Jesus is, what He did, and then move onto what Jesus tells us about the God who sent Him?

Jesus is compelling, intriguing, and captivating. Trying to convince people of the existence of God can be dry, dull, and focuses too much on the intellect. Focusing on Jesus can capture people’s imagination and encourage them to wonder about the character of God. Once they start this wondering for themselves, we can help them on their journey, rather than convince them there is a journey to start with.

2. Recover the verb-ness of Faith

Last time I said that faith and belief had become about agreeing with an idea. That isn’t what we see when we look in Scripture and it shouldn’t be what we expect from our young people today.

Think about the amazing examples of faith we look to in the Bible; how Abraham left his land and followed God’s instructions (mostly), the way that Moses stood against the tyranny of Pharaoh and lead the people to freedom, the way Samuel challenged the people to turn their backs on evil and follow God, how Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah stood defiantly before different kings of Babylon. And that is just a few examples from the Old Testament! Think of all the other examples from the New Testament, the history of the church, and from recent history. What marks them all out is that their faith involved, led to, and inspired action.

3. Treat the Bible on its own terms

I recently had a church visit from some GCSE RE students. As part of looking around the church we got into a conversation around Levitical Law. The usual weird laws came up in conversation, but when we got onto talking about what the Law was actually for, they were surprised at how contemporary and relevant it sounded. At the heart of the Law is the idea that all humans are image bearers of God, and so are worthy to be treated with dignity, respect, and care.

By talking about the Bible on its own terms, we were able to move past the surface level conversation about how weird the laws were and started to move towards a more interesting and impactful conversation.

When we make excuses for what is in the Bible, we undermine our own faith. When we promote the Bible as simple, we cheat the young people we work with of an opportunity to engage deeply with it. When we treat it on its own terms, however, we can catch our young peoples’ imaginations and intellects, and then help them to engage with their faith in a holistic way. This will draw them in and help them to be agents in their own spiritual formation, rather than simply receivers of just our wisdom.

4. De-spiritualise spirituality

Think of how conversations around spirituality are framed. The spiritual is a realm that is parallel with ours; it is other, abstract. The result is that either the spiritual is pushed to the side and takes on less significance than what goes on in the ‘real’ world, or that the spiritual is emphasised as being behind all the problems in the world.

But if we remove this lens and try and replace it with a biblical view of the spiritual, then an important change happens: Things in the world take on a spiritual significance that calls us to action.

Let me give you an example:

Unethical supply chains exploit people. In a view of the world where the spiritual is abstract, this is sad but the result of the way the world is. However, in a view of the world where the spiritual is a real and a central part of life, these supply chains are evil. Anything that reduces people to be less than human is part of this evil, anything that exploits creation is part of this evil.

If we can help our young people to develop a view of the world in which the spiritual is neither Paranormal Activity-esque, nor is it a nice luxury for those who have time to contemplate, then their choices take on greater significance, and calling them to a life of faith has a real impact on the world around them.

Also, within this framework, you need never have a conversation about how Christianity is ‘boring’ ever again, because it is clear what impact it has on the world.

Conclusion

At the heart of each of these is the idea that living a life of faith is far more than waiting for God to call us to heaven. It is about living lives inspired by God’s perspective, working against evil and for good in a way that brings peace, joy, beauty, and goodness into the world.

If we can promote these ideas in our faith formation, then we will call our young people to a life of faith in which they are bringing goodness into the world through their actions and choices.

Further reading

There are a number of books which have influenced my thinking around this. Below is a selection that I think are helpful in exploring how we develop the faith of the young people we work with:

Frost, M & Hirsch, A. 2009, ReJesus: A Wild Messiah for a Missional Church. Baker Academic.

Frost, M. 2006, Exiles: Living Missionally in a PostChristian Culture. Baker Books.

Hellend, R. & Hjalmarson, L. 2011, Missional Spirituality: Embodying God’s Love from the Inside Out. InterVarsity Press.

Smith, J. K. A. 2009-2017. Cultural Liturgies series. Baker Academic.

Smith, J. K. A. (ed), 2006-2015, The Church and Postmodern Culture series. Baker Academic

Viola, F. & Barna, G. 2012, Pagan Christianity. Tyndale House.

Wright, T. 2013, Surprised by Scripture: Engaging with contemporary issues. SPCK.

 

 

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The Scariest Verse in the Bible for Youth Workers

[The following is an extract from Chapter 6 of Rebooted]

The scariest and most challenging verse in the Bible for me as a youth worker is Matthew 19:14, ‘Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.”’

What a wimp right?

I mean, this is a relatively tame verse as far as scary verses go. What about Deut. 28:53 which talks about eating children, or Mal. 2:3 where we’re told that dung will be spread on our faces? (If you don’t believe me, go find them yourself!) What about Ez. 20:26, which says that God fills us with horror? ‘Let the little children come to me is adorable, right?’ That’s why we have it painted on our Sunday School walls and crossed-stitched on pillows.

Speaking of which, in my first full-time ministry position, there was a stained-glass window set that contained this ‘adorable’ verse. In the central pane was Jesus, looking very white and middle-class, complete with perfectly straightened brown hair, a cool soul-patch, and blue birds twittering around his head. Pudgy blonde children and respectful looking teenagers surrounded him, running around his legs, clutching onto his fingers, and playing with toy aeroplanes and yo-yos.

In the left pane were the children’s parents, sharing photos from their wallets of their other children and happily looking on as this strange single man played with their kids. The right pane depicted the disciples, watching pleasantly like they were learning an important lesson.

Are you kidding?

If you are a parent or have done any children’s work you might imagine a more accurate version of this scene: bedlam. Screaming, freaked out children with goo dripping from their faces being manhandled by their parents away from the strange man, while other ‘helicopter’ parents soared in to get a magic blessing from the miracle worker for their little Beatrice. All the while the disciples – in black bow ties and florescent vests – took on the role of bouncers, forming a cordon to keep them away.

In the middle of this chaos, Jesus effectively yells “Shut up! Get out of the way, and let them come!”

This scares me for two reasons. First, Jesus says “let them come.” He doesn’t say make, bribe, force, trick, coerce, pay, or dope up on sugar. They just needed to be allowed to come. I’ve never actually met a young person who didn’t express interest when told about Jesus. They might turn off at the first mention of religion, church, or the idea of being a Christian – but Jesus fascinates them.

There is something naturally attractive to a young person about Jesus. My belief is that if Jesus was walking the streets today, young people would follow Him. They might not fully embrace, or totally give their lives over to Him – but they would totally check Him out.

The problem, of course, is that Jesus is walking the streets today – at least technically speaking. The physical embodiment of Jesus today is His church! 1 Cor. 12 calls the church the body of Christ. We are His witnesses, called to display His character and goodness to the world. If we truly are supposed to look like Jesus, then where are the young people? Why are they not breaking down our doors to figure Him out? Of course, one answer to that is our doors are often locked. Even aside from that though, if the church today truly looks like Jesus in the 1 Cor. 12 sense, then why are young people not flocking in to find out more?

When first reading that last paragraph, my wife said to me ‘you don’t have your lovely baritone voice or your outraged eyes to help you here. You need it to punch us in the guts!’ I’m hoping the idea itself is scary enough though, so please, read that last line again and consider yourself gut-punched!

The second reason this verse scares me is contained in Jesus’ second clause, “do not hinder them.” Another way of translating this might be Get out of the way!

The idea that we could get in-between young people and the Author of Life is terrifying! That our practices, attitudes, traditions and sometimes our plain rudeness to young people could actually stop them meeting Jesus is terrifying. Hungry, needy, desperate young people are looking for a direct way to Jesus – but if we are standing in the middle of that road, as bouncers or security guards, then those young people remain hungry, needy and desperate.

If the disciples, who knew Jesus best, could get this so horribly wrong, then I know that I certainly could too.

We could easily distill this down to one golden rule for church-based youth work: Point people to Jesus and get out of the way. It sounds good – and it’s a great start – but it’s not the whole story.

So … You want to set up a youth cafe? – On Premier Youth and Children’s Work

Great to have another post on Premier Youth Work blog this week. This time I was talking about the immensely popular ‘Youth Cafe’ project, how to make it work, and why you might not want one.

Check it out here.