Why I don’t post many book reviews

Over the last twelve months I’ve been sent about twenty-five books from publishers hoping for a review. This is always a hard call for me because I take book reviews very seriously. I think there’s an inherent responsibility to the book, the author, and the audience (intended or otherwise) that a reviewer on a public platform needs to respect. That tends to come with more time than I have.

Here’s a few reasons why book reviews take me so long, and why, therefore, I don’t review many books on YouthWorkHacks.

I have to live it to know it

A ‘book reviewer’ should never be your intended reader. In that vein, I need to try and put myself into the shoes and experiences of those that any given book is intended for, and frankly, I find that difficult. I’m not a typical youth worker to begin with, and beyond that I’m not an undergrad student, a parent, or a young person. Reading a book with a different perspective in mind takes a little more mental aerobics that I usually have the time or brain power for. I find writing to a specific audience much easier than reading one into something that already exists. It’s usually easier to just stay in my own head.

There are real people behind a book

I’ve gotten to know a few authors since writing my own book and the main thing I’ve discovered is their skin is no thicker than mine for having published more (and mine is pretty thin). Book reviews – especially done badly – can really stink for an author in more ways than just affecting their sales. They can hurt deeply and personally in ways that the reviewer, hidden behind a keyboard, can be either woefully unaware of, or tragically unconcerned about. Beyond the author there are also designers, editors, and publishers, all of whom own a project, are invested deeply in it. They know it inside out, and also get a sharp slap from a misplaced review.

I can easily read things wrong

Over the last eighteen months I started a lot of ‘objective reading.’ This has included marking essays for universities, editing booklets for publication, and peer-review for journals. This has been a whole new experience for me, but these all have something that keeps me accountable: they all have moderators! A moderator is a professional who reads my comments and checks that I really did understand what was written. Sometimes I don’t. Sometimes I get things wrong, and sometimes I completely mischaracterise what has actually been said without even realising it. Book reviews on my blog just don’t have that same formal line of accountability. If I review anything, therefore, I tend to read it through at least twice, and then try to be immensely careful that I’ve read it correctly. That’s just hard! If I’m going to post an unfavourable review – usually I’ll send a copy to the author, the publisher, or just an honest friend to comment first. I’d always rather err on the side of care and caution. I don’t want to ever mischaracterise something that means so much to somebody else.

My biases can slip through

Before I wrote my own book, I spent years wanting to write a book. I saw some authors write books that I wanted to write, and others who wrote books that I thought at some level were simply ‘unworthy’ of writing a book. I was so upset and frustrated that it wasn’t ‘me’ that I found it far too easy to lash out. Knowing that, I think it’s much too convenient to inadvertently use a review as a retribution platform – to try and readdress a balance or put a new slant on something accepted; to arbitrate our own justice, or even just to vent. Any review with high levels of bias – especially bias that the review reader might not be aware of – drains a review of all its integrity and credibility. I don’t want to be that guy.

I’m not a very good referee

Reviews can often tribalise and polarise Christians even more than they already are. Reviews that bleed into social media spaces can create bloodthirsty frenzies which feed on authors without nuance or care. This is particularly damaging when the person you’re reviewing is a committed follower of Jesus, so someone that you’ll probably know in Heaven. A respectful and wise reviewer knows how to temper and guide their audience without further propagation of ill-will. I just don’t think I’m that wise, humble or clear-tempered enough to do this. It would be too easy to use comments as a way to boost my own fragile self-esteem, rather than grow healthy conversations about resources. I’d rather just stay out of it!

They’re effective

My blog sees quite a bit of traffic now, and there are some who would read an endorsement or rejection by this blog as carrying a lot of weight. That’s not to show off, it’s just the reality. I’ve spent years very carefully cultivating a very particular audience and I have a responsibility to make sure that I model a language which reflects Christ in this very public, free-for-all internet arena. If I care enough to push back on, or endorse any book, then I want to make every effort, take every care, avoid every integrity stumbling block – and make darn sure that I’m writing in a heart that reflects the faith I live for. I often can’t do this – so I often don’t write reviews.

So, there it is! If you’re a publisher that’s been sending me books, thanks, but I’m sorry I don’t review a lot.

If you’re an author who wants me to review something specific – do get in touch with me, but don’t feel rejected if I say no (or if I take forever). I’m trying to honour your book and your audience – and also mine. So, forgive me!

I might try and review a bit more – probably beginning with books that I already know well or really care about – but don’t hold your breath. 😛

Thanks 🙂

So you want to be a youth work blogger…

I started ministry blogging in my first year at Bible College, which means I’ve been doing it for over sixteen years. It’s an amazing privilege and a joy – and yet it’s hard work and a slog too. There’s been plenty that I’ve gotten wrong, both in front and behind the keyboard. There are many apologies that I’ve had to make over the years. I think that places me well to write this.

I’d love more youth workers to be bloggers because it’s a great way to share experiences, wisdom and resources. Over the last decade I’ve seen many youth ministry blogs pop-up and then disappear almost overnight. This is an immense shame. We need a bit more follow through, and a lot more care.

With that in mind, here are ten ‘rules’ for longevity that I’d like to bring to the blogosphere.

Take it seriously

Set out real time, energy, money, and focus. If you really want to cultivate an audience, then you need to respect that audience by putting in the work. Pray over it and ask God to guide you throughout the process. Don’t just wing it.

Don’t take it seriously

Wing it a little. The best blogs are by their very nature personal and personable. So, don’t try to hide away all your foibles, or iron out all your creases. Don’t work too hard on a professional look, start with good content. As in any kind of writing, a little vulnerability creates great empathy – and great empathy means engaged reading.

Write well

Read lots, proofread, develop your craft, and edit, edit, edit. I shouldn’t have to read a post twice to understand what it’s driving at or why I should care about it. Usually for me this means tell the story, be specific, show your working, and call to action. Then edit, edit, edit! Respect the reader by presenting your content well.

Don’t write well

Remember that it’s still a blog, and so it should be readable on coffee breaks, and understandable on the loo. It’s about consistently adding to the conversation, not trying to have the last polished word.

Actually do ministry

For me, your blog loses credibility if you’re not actually practising what you preach. It’s easy to throw mud into a ring from the outside than it is to actually put the gloves on. A blog should comment on what you know, not speculate on something that you have no experience in.

Don’t do ministry

A blog should go further than just commenting on what we’ve experienced. It should ask big questions about areas we’re not conversant in. It should play devil’s advocate, and graciously engage viewpoints outside our worldview. It should invite other players onto the pitch. A blog is set up to be part of the learning environment, not to dominate it.

Be bold

Be honest and clear about what you believe. Suggest strong changes and push people with genuine challenges. Hold yourself, and those you’re writing to, to high standards of healthy practice and theology.

Don’t be bold

Drop down a few floors from the Ivory Tower. Don’t be pretentious about your aims and objectives, or what you decide to name your blog. Don’t been an absolutist, or subtly side-line others in the arena through back handed passive-aggression. Don’t be anonymous.

Be respectful

Understand that anyone with a public voice should be held to a higher account. Always speak about the others with great care, sacrificial love, and never forget to give the benefit of the doubt – especially if you’re likely to know that person in heaven. If you’re going to call out anybody, make sure you follow the same Bible-driven guidelines you would face-to-face or at a public meeting.

Yup – always be respectful

I know just how much of an ego stroke and vanity cesspool a successful blog can be. This is especially true when you’ve taken a side and rouse an online rabble to join you. Vindication – as good as it might feel – is simply not a holy way to use your voice. Guard your heart, bridle your keyboard-tongue, and pray over every word that leaves your webspace. Treat it as holy ground, surrender it to God, and ask the Holy Spirit to inhabit it. If a post becomes more about you than Jesus or strokes your itches more than worships Him – then delete it. Period.

A Christian blog should never be weaponised, especially against a neighbour.

So, in the end, lead with love. Treat keyboard conversation as you would real conversation. Be aware of the power of your tool. Protect your voice. Honour God with your words and tone. Treat it with respect and again – lead with love. Then go ahead and blog!

 

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Why did YouthWorkHacks take three weeks off?!?

Hi folks – we’re back – after a mammoth three-and-a-bit-week break!

I’ve been blogging since my very first year at Bible College, which was back in 2004. Since then I’ve managed blogs for clients, churches, charities, poets, photographers – and of course, myself. I know about the importance of consistency in the blog world, and I know how regular posting funnel-feeds hits into engaged readers. I get it! So why take a significant chunk of time off?

Because, simply put, sometimes my head hurts!

Because, less simply put, the digital world and the ‘real’ world are so unbearably overlapping now, it seems pertinent to take some real world habits into online spaces. A couple of years ago I took a ‘blog day off’, where I didn’t write, read, or interact for a day, last year I took a blogging sabbatical, earlier this year I stopped blogging on the sabbath, and now I’m taking a couple of blog holidays a year too!

It’s been a wild month. My blog won another award in London, I travelled to lecture at a Bible College twice, and I’ve had to do some writing and editing for other places – I’ve also still been working as a full-time youth worker. So it’s not been massively ‘restful’. However, being AFK with my own blog has meant that I’ve had to really trust it into God’s hands. Martin Luther once said, ‘I have held many things in my hands, and I have lost them all; but whatever I have placed in God’s hands, that I still possess.’

But don’t worry, we’re back now!

We’ve got posts coming up on:

  • Theology vs. relationships – a false distinction?
  • ‘Black and white’ issues in the Bible – not being afraid of grey areas
  • Training our teenagers to be theologians
  • How to deal with anonymous complaints
  • Talking politics with young people
  • How the ‘women in ministry’ debate is hurting modern youth work
  • Reimagining mentoring
  • Matching the message to the messenger or the messenger to the message?
So stay tuned!
Photo by Manasvita S on Unsplash

Why YouthWorkHacks doesn’t use Ads

I was asked a few days ago how to generate revenue from a blog. My answer (which was ‘I don’t’) really surprised them.

Back in the days when I freelanced as a ghost-writer and a digital publicist, I had a shopfront blog that marketed my skills as a personal brand and then click-funnelled people into my commission work pages alongside adware packages. This was always separate to ministry blogging, and when I stopped that part of my life to focus on ministry, I didn’t bring those aspects over.

I do share my own services (consultancy, training, book), and will happily share others’ high-quality resources in posts for free, but I don’t use any algorithm-generated advert software, have a Patreon account, or accept payment for advertising something.

I have at several times seriously considered Ad programs and a Patreon account but decided against both. Quick Caveat: This is absolutely not a dig at anyone who does use those things (and I know on free hosting adverts are impossible to avoid anyway), but I just wanted to give a personal explanation why I don’t use them for this blog.

I can’t monitor them as closely as I like

Even when you specify clearly the type of ads you want; the audience parameter will always overrule you. This means that, for my age group, video games and TV shows I don’t approve of, certain medications, and even indiscriminate dating sites somehow find their way through the filters. I enjoy football and formula 1, so no matter how many filters I add, websites I frequent will continue to advertise a wacky mix of gambling sites, cheap beer, expensive watches, and luxury yachts!

There are some very large ministry sites that take great cares over their ad-revenue programs, but still try to sell me Viagra. Some of the worlds biggest Christian blogs come with very uncomfortable software generated adverts. I just don’t want people to associate those things with my writing.

They might change my focus to increase traffic

Ad revenue is based on clicks, and clicks come from hits, and hits are generated by click-bait. If you want people to click on an advert, then you need to convince them to visit first. The more visitors, the more money.

I’ve worked hard over the last fifteen years of blogging to cultivate a very specific audience. I believe that these are people who visit because they want to consume the content that I’m providing. It’s a small group, but I’d rather keep them!

It’s an easy temptation for me personally to want to be liked by everyone, and I think I’d soften my posts, or lower the quality of my content to produce the quantity and catchy titles that would draw more clickers, rather than readers. I could do without that temptation.

If I sell something, I want to be 100% behind it

If I can’t put my weight behind something, and allow my reputation to be attached to it, then I don’t want to sell it. I want to be generous with my platform for sure, but I don’t want to be generous with my values.

Point 1. showed that I can’t easily monitor what is being advertised, so I can’t guarantee I’ll be behind the products. If I wouldn’t sell something from my yard sale, I won’t sell it from my blog.

Adverts can dilute some readers trust in the platform

As human animals, I think we’re wired to make unconscious associations and fallacious equivalents. What I mean by that is we mash things together mentally that would otherwise remain separate. Perhaps the easiest one to relate to is having a bad day at work, then snapping at someone at home.

If my blog appears alongside adverts and constant prods for donations, then I think it can soften the openness in which readers use to engage with posts.

I don’t want any of my readers to think twice about my words because they’re expecting me to try and sell them something.

I really want my blog to be a gift

I want my blog to be generous, a real service to people who struggle or want more reflective content. I don’t want the temptation of it serving my pocket to factor in.

I pay for the template, hosting, and domain main, and I’m about to start paying for a piece of automated backup software. My wife and I factor this into our ministry expenses and see it as part of our service; for interest it costs about the same as a Netflix account.

The blog, for me, is not and has never been a source of revenue, it’s a source of ministry. I have a full-time job, so I don’t need the extra money. If revenue generation stopped anyone from engaging, then it just wouldn’t be worth it to me.

So, each to their own for their own reasons, but that’s what Youth Work Hacks doesn’t have adverts or a Patreon account. If you genuinely want to support my online ministry, comment, share, and maybe buy a book! 😛

Thanks 🙂

Youth Work Hacks at the Premier Digital Awards 2018

I’m so blown away that Youth Work Hacks is a finalist again at this year’s Premier Digital Awards! Each year I’m inspired by the entries and encouraged to push further in creating quality online content for youth workers.

In 2016, we won ‘Most Inspiring Leadership Blog’ and in 2017 we won both ‘Most Inspiring Leadership Blog’ again, and ‘Multi-Author Blog of the Year.’ Youth Work Hacks has been nominated in these two categories again.

Please do check out the other fabulous nominations in these categories. Special shoutout to my old New Testament professor from Oak Hill, Chris Green with ‘Ministry Nuts and Bolts’!

Most Inspiring Leadership Blog

Campus Awakening

Ministry Nuts and Bolts

Nick Wright

The Additional Needs Blogfather

Multi-Author Blog of the Year

Be Loved

Clarity Magazine

Girl Got Faith

We are Chapel

3 Good Reasons To Start A Youth Work Blog

Blogs are epic! They’re an online part mini journal, part magazine, part social network that allows you room in a wide, like-minded community. Even pants writers (like me) get to play!

There are a few things that would simply revolutionize youth ministry in the UK. I think one of those things is make every youth worker a youth work blogger. So here’s three good reasons to do it, join the conversation and become a youth work blogger:

  1. It Counters Isolation
    I think the worst thing about being a Youth Worker is just how lonely a job it can be and how easy it is to isolate yourself. Blogging connects you up with other youth leaders at a personal, practical and spiritual level.
  2. It Opens Up A Huge Ideas Library
    The internet was first designed to help researchers share scientific data – and so it is with youth work blogs. Got a good idea or need some inspiration? Get into the blog sphere, start sharing, get commenting and start bumping up your repertoire.
  3. It Connects The Movement
    Christian Youth Work in the UK is a mission that’s looking increasingly desperate. We need to identify with each other, pool our resources and be part of the charge together. Blogs build identity with a larger group. We need to connect up and take the Young People of the UK for Jesus together. These movements always begin with communication – blogs are a thorough, open and consistent way to do this.

So get blogging, get connected with twitter, start hash-tagging, start following, commenting and producing. Let’s get talking – not to build mini blog-empires, but to do community together!

Blog Shoutouts!

Nine years of blogging, and the 100th post on this ‘new’ blog! Exciting times. 🙂

I’m celebrating by buying a new domain name (www.puddlelump.com), updating a few bits n’ pieces, and giving a shoutout to some amazing and edifying blogs that I read.

These all encourage my life and my work – hopefully they will encourage yours too!

Ultracrepidarian – My Wife, Katie Gough’s, blog full of poetry, philosophy, essays, and high quality writing

A New Name – A friend from Bible College, Emma Scrivener, who writes powerful and emotive thoughts on identity and theology in light of our messy human lives.

Adrian on Patheos – Adrian Warnock’s blog is full of great evangelical theology, interviews and discussions. A veteran blogger and very helpful thinker.

Martin Saunders – Great practical thoughts on the Youth Work world from the former editor of Youthwork Magazine. Very current and very helpful.

Chris Kidd – A helpful blog approaching Youth Work from a theological and practical perspective.

Dave Walker Cartoons – Just a fun and satirical collection of hand-drawn Church cartoons and comics

Youthwork Magazine – Good blog that has a mix of practical ideas for youth leaders and teachable teenager-safe posts on living as a Christian

Desiring God – Great thoughts from John Piper & Co. on life, ministry, the universe, and everything.

Ministry Nuts and Bolts – A lecturer from my Bible College, Chris Green’s insightful and gospel focused thoughts on Christian ministry and theology.

Jonny Baker – A fun blog exploring art, worship, faith, and ministry.

Lounge – A Scottish Scripture Union CU blog on youth work, faith, theology, and schools based ministry. Great stuff.

Enjoying God – Sam Storms, a great evangelical and charismatic pastor-theologian giving brilliant insights into theology Church history and ministry.

Cross Means Yes – Powerful blog from Jessica Buntin-Smith, my best man’s wife. Blogging on family life, pregnancy and working through Hodgkin’s Lymphoma in light of the Gospel.

Youth Work Hacks – a year later!

What a ride this year has been! Youth Work Hacks – the wee little blog that could – has grown into a fantastic space that I’m well proud to be a part of! It’s outgrowing me, which was always the dream.

So what’s been happening that’s causing the hoohar?

Well first, some big sites like Youth Specialties have picked up on some of our posts and have been trending them. That’s cool right?

Second, we got some cracking guest posts written for us by AMAZING people – and now there’s more coming in the pipeline.

Speaking of guest posts, we ran an international series called ‘Youth Work Around The Globe’ looking at Hungary, South Africa and Aboriginal Australia. That caught the attention of someone who will be publishing a similar book this year.

We’ve spread out too, writing quite a few things for the likes of Premier Youth Work blog, and Lead Anyone. And I was approached to give an interview for The Longer Haul podcast which will go live soon.

Of course we can’t forget about our digital-resident comic, Chloe – whose deliciously satirical and sarcastic scribbles have boosted traffic and raised some great discussions in the social media world.

We also started spending money! (I know, right?) We bought domain names, switched to self hosting, and purchased a really decent theme… which we still haven’t totally figured out how to use.

Not that it’s about numbers (of course, ever….. :P), but it’s been great to see a steady stream of subscribers and unique hits each month too. It’s a niche, so numbers are not earth shattering – but we’re doing alright!

Staying with the lighter side, we’ve had fun breaking into the quiz would with ‘Which Simpsons Youth Worker Are You’ and ‘Which West Wing Secretary Do You Need?’ Watch this space for ‘What Kind Of Youth Worker Sandwich Are You?’

Finally, we started gently in the research direction by looking into how Youth Workers view, run and resource Small Groups. Interesting data gathered that will drive some of our future posts.

Fab year everybody – thanks for getting involved! Here’s to the next.

Tim

Why did we call it ‘Youth Work Hacks?’

A Youth Work Sabbatical on the Blog

Some of you have noticed that I disappeared for a while. I haven’t had a terrible accident, I’m not training to be a ninja and I’ve not discovered the joys of being a hermit.

I have been taking a blogging sabbatical.

This might just be a clever sounding way of saying ‘I’ve not been online for a wee bit,’ but it has been a healthy, albeit spontaneous online choice.

Why?

I’ve been blogging for about 10 years in various forms, but it was only in the last two that it started to make any traction. I was getting hits, subscribers and discussions going on social media, as well as having posts feature on bigger blogs around the world.

With all that extra attention came an unease with the shape and direction of my heart.

Time off from this allowed me to take perspective on who’s glory, who’s wisdom and who’s heart needs to be most clearly seen online.

Jesus tells Peter in Matthew 16:18 that HE will build His church. He would use Peter and even build on Peter, but Jesus is the master builder – not Peter.

I needed to make sure that my vision for the blog was to build his kingdom and not my empire.

I believe that coming back into my blog now – with the time behind me to take on that inventory – will allow Him to send me the readers that He wants whoever and how many that might be.

What Did I Do While ‘AFK’?

I didn’t really do anything different to what I normally would do. I carried on in my youth work job, developing my charity, training the team, ministering to and disciplining young people and seeking God generally.

I spent time with my wife, I ate good food, I went to events, spoke a at a few and I moved house. I also had three months of counseling – but that’s for another post!

What I didn’t do however was contribute to online discussion on matters of theology or youth ministry. I stayed off my blog. I occasionally came on to clear the spam and respond to messages, but that’s it.

How Did It Feel?

There were times when I was freaked out. The lack of spam filter meant that I became a coat rack for every single knock off Oakley’s glasses, Ugg boots and Justin Bieber supported product.

There were times reading other blogs and wanting to comment, wanting to add my own thoughts to the discussion. There were big things happening in the Christian world and the UK election but I was gagging to share on.

However generally it was an absolute head reboot. My thinking cleared, my time grew, and my space became a little bit more compartmentalised in the right ways. I was able to bring myself before God and take stock on who my identity is and how that matches up with my online identity.

That has been priceless.

So what now?

Well I’m back! I’m going to blog and write articles and continue where I left off. I might not publish three-five times a week (which was my pattern), but I will shoot for at least two. I will pray over every post I write, and seek God’s Holy Spirit to speak though me and to me in my approach the online arena. A few ideologies I will try to develop are:
– Writing more theologically, which is where my background, training and experience lies.
– Creating more resources that free and downloadable.
– Seeking more guest bloggers to write and be interviewed to broaden the net of experience and keep the conversation going.
– Transcribing training seminars and events that I’ve given over the last ten years to be in post format.

– Seeking more topics that encourage inclusivity, unity and networking.

What I’d like from you

Please keep me accountable! I want my heart to be God’s heart and build his kingdom rather than my empire. Please comment on posts, send messages, suggest topics and ask to be a guest blogger. I’d love for this blog experience to become less about me more about people with a heart for young people.

Thanks for taking the ride with me!

Tim